I agree. The 9mm, .38, ,380, and .357 are all basically .35 caliber weapons. I like the .357 Magnum. But the 9mm Parabellum and the .380 are short rounds and just don't pack enough punch. I've always figured a 9mm was a good kid's gun. They're also ok for most women who can't handle a 10mm, .40 Smith, or my beloved .45 ACP.