As a website owner myself I can assure you it is difficult to get it 101% perfect for everybody let alone yourself. Somewhere along the way you just gotta say "Good enough" and publish the site and see what the populace thinks.
I have learned through my experiance the KISS rule works best. Simple colors, fonts and graphics along with a good easy to use script platform that loads fast and works like it is supposed to are best. Good content like Jason has here is what makes or breaks a site.
Webdesigners come in two catagories, expensive and unreliable. A good webdesigner will cost hundreds up to thousands of dollars to creatate an attractive site. Cheap foreign designers will leave you hanging almost every time without fail.
I agree with the idea "If it aint broke". An update every once in awhile is definately a must but not too much, people don't like change.
JMO, keep up the good work Jason!!!
Coz